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MARCH 2004
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Emotional Intelligence
~What is its Value in the Workplace?~

aining more and more publicity in the world around us is the importance of emotional intelligence. Many don't quiteunderstand its value or usefulness, though. In this article wewill try to dispel some of the confusion.

What is Emotional Intelligence?

As Daniel Goleman, a leading psychologist, researcher and author puts it, emotional intelligence is "self-awareness, managing your emotions effectively, motivation, empathy, reading other people's feelings accurately, social skills like teamwork, persuasion, leadership and managing relationships". All of these characteristics are critical to success.

IQ versus EI

Putting the emphasis on IQ, without taking into account EI, can be very limiting. While IQ may help in determining which career to pursue and what level of education is attainable, it doesn't have as much bearingon the success a person will attain. There are many geniuses who are not top of their field or stars in their careers.

On the other hand, EI has a huge bearing on success. Success is often determined by the very attributes which make up emotional intelligence.

As an example, say you have to deal with an angry client. Your IQ may enable you to explain in great detail what the problem is and how to fix it. Great! However, the client is too upset to listen. Your EI will help you to first understand what the client is feeling, to empathize, to handle your own frustration/anger that may crop up if the client is unkind, to control your impulse to retaliate, to listen and to help the client calm down. Then, you can use persuasion and kindness to explain the situation and the solution. With these steps, your client will be more inclined to listen and will go away feeling heard, respected and satisfied.

You will encounter similar situations with co-workers, family and friends. You have to deal with not just the situations, but, more importantly, the underlying emotions, whether they are positive or negative. EI enables you to build/maintain good relationships with all the people you deal with day to day.

our IQ is what it is; however, EI is learned. Developing it just makes sense. If it helps you have stronger relationships professionally and personally, if it helps you deal with things that happen in this disturbed world without becoming disturbed yourself, if it helps you to be happy and productive, where is the downside?

To learn more about it, check out Daniel Goleman's books - Emotional Intelligence and Working with Emotional Intelligence.

Success!

imension 11 is proud of the people we have been privileged to work with for the past few months. Following are just a few of the positions they have attained after facing career transition and moving forward to re-establish themselves in the work force.

  • President of a new mortgage brokerage business
  • Customer Service Representative for a Crown Corporation
  • Manager for a high end retail establishment
  • Several Customer Service Representatives for financial institutions throughout the province

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For success, attitude is equally as important as ability.

— Harry F. Banks —

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